The organisation should consult with the deceased employee’s next of kin and, within reason, respect their wishes as far as is possible. This is likely to be an emotionally challenging task for the HR professional and/or manager who takes the lead. Every situation will need to be very sensitively and carefully managed based on how the employee’s close family want to be communicated with.
Communication guidelines for informing employees about a suspected suicide should be in place, although formal statements need to be tailored to the individual circumstances. There needs to be careful consideration of the type of language used to convey what has happened. It is important to remember that an individual who has died by suicide should be afforded the same level of confidentiality as they had in life. Death does not change a right to privacy and dignity.
The need for open, honest and factual communication with employees needs to be balanced with respecting the desire for privacy on the part of the bereaved family, and the family should be consulted when deciding what to disclose to employees. It’s critical to be sensitive to the needs of close family and friends bereaved by suicide. Think carefully about the way you choose to communicate; different approaches may be needed for different individuals. For example, if a team member was close to the employee who has died by suicide, it’s better to have the conversation in person, where you can show empathy and support, and signpost to expert help where needed.
The organisation should draft a statement, if appropriate, that sets out in sensitive and respectful language what has happened. This needs to be very mindful of the details that are provided. As well as respecting the wishes of the deceased individual’s family, the suicide may not be confirmed for several weeks or months, with the circumstances of an individual’s death possibly subject to a police investigation and, subsequently, a coroner’s hearing. Any formal mention of the death should refer to ‘suspected suicide’ and communication should not mention the method of suicide. Keeping communication channels open is important, as wishes may change and people may receive more information and details of the funeral and so on.
Depending on the size of the organisation and the level of contact between the deceased employee and the wider organisation, a tiered approach to communication may be appropriate. The employee’s team should be spoken to in person, and the organisation will need to think through who else needs to know, what they need to know and why, then tier communication accordingly. The (suspected) suicide will not affect everyone in the same way so it’s important not to make assumptions about how individuals will feel; an employee could have been close to people outside of their team, or maybe had a difficult relationship or meeting that people will remember.
If some details have been informally discussed by employees, this will need sensitive handling. It may be necessary to contain the flow of any rumours or misinformation across the workforce, as these can quickly circulate to fill any vacuum in communication.
Give employees guidance on the need to be careful about the use of social media. It’s understandable that people may want to share their thoughts about such an upsetting event, but the organisation needs to ensure that comments don’t stray into any negative or harmful areas. Depending on the circumstances, there could be media interest and the organisation will need to establish how any press enquiries should be handled.